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If you have been following this blog for a while, then you have seen photos and updates posted from the 2024 and 2025 pilgrimages to Norwich, England. (Please see “All Blogs Pilgrimage” on this website if you missed it.)


Julian was alive and writing in the Fourteenth century when women were not meant to have a voice, and nobody was allowed to read or write in the English language. She broke all the rules and became the first known woman to have written a book in English (published posthumously). Julian was the quintessential insider/outsider, living attached to St. Julian’s Church, while writing words of her own that did not align with the Roman Church’s message of the day. Her message was love.


The theme for the upcoming 2026 pilgrimage will be Writing with Julian of Norwich. Six Pilgrim Sisters are invited to join me for a week in Norwich next May. We will enjoy lodgings at the All Hallow’s Guesthouse right next door to the anchorage where Julian lived and wrote Revelations of Divine Love. We will celebrate Julian’s Feast Day, May 8, with the Friends of Julian. We will tour and participate in events at the National Center for Writing, just down the hill. Norwich is a UNESCO City of Literature. We will spend time at Norwich Cathedral and walk the large labyrinth. The Cathedral librarian will take us into the archives. We will visit the British Library in London to explore three of the handwritten manuscripts. At the guesthouse we will have tea and cakes with local Julian scholars. We will write our own “revelations”as we gather daily to reflect and share our encounters of Julian in her very hospitable community of Norwich.


Norwich, England is preserved in many ways just as Julian’s writing. Charming narrow cobblestone streets and winding river walks with swans at every turn are the backdrop for the pilgrimage. What is a pilgrimage, you ask? Take a look at “What makes a pilgrimage a pilgrimage” under “On Pilgrimage” here marielaureauthor.com


This is your early-bird invitation to reserve your place for the seven day pilgrimage in May of 2026 before it is advertised. With only six places, this is first come, first served. Dates and prices will be forthcoming. All inquiries may be sent directly to me, your pilgrimage leader, at marielaureauthor@gmail.com


Here is one of the 2025 Pilgrim Sisters’ sentiments shared upon returning home: . . .”I just reread what I wrote on that day. It brings tears to my eyes. What we shared with each other that day was so beautiful. I very much enjoyed our writing time together and discovered that I really enjoy writing in a group setting extemporaneously.” K. M.


Lots of information can be found through these links.

Swans of Norwich
Swans of Norwich

 
 
 

Updated: Aug 6, 2025


Or … “I do ballrooms”, said the President of the United States with a big slap across the face of Americans and the rest of the world. It isn’t hard to imagine how King Louis XVI and Marie Antoinette lost their heads. Buidling a billion dollar ballroom at the White House while starvation swallows victims across the world and Americans by the millions will soon have no health insurance is as callous and cruel as it gets. Meanwhile, friendly neighbors to the North are retaliating against tariffs by boycotting American products. Without any doubt, the USA has lost its standing here in Canada from where I am writing.



“We are not going to America anymore”, said the tour guide in strong Quebecois style. My grandparents who emigrated long ago to the US were stubborn people. It is the Canadian nature. “Elbows up”!


“We know it is not all Americans, just that ONE person: UN!”, said my French teacher.

The class makeup was mostly younger people from El Salvador, Mexico, Columbia, the Philippines, Japan, Switzerland, and MOI! When the discussion turned toward our respective countries, the descriptions were chilling: “We have many huge jails”, said Erika from San Salvador; “My parents said Canada is a good country to go to”, said the Mexican studying on a visa hoping for permanent residency. Sophia, age 17, from Columbia was not eager to return home, even though she said: “I miss my mother”. The Phillipino woman said angrily: “We had the first Marco dictatorship, now we have his son! Everyone wants to leave”.


My own comments fell in line with their own, and I realized just how close, so very close the US has come to joining the world of dictatorships. Each of the students is looking for a new country to call home. They are prepared to leave their own country that offers little for their futures. I do not look so much to the future, but to the present days for myself, and to the future for my own younger family members. It is the reason that I have applied for second-generation citizenship in Canada.


If approved, I will have dual citizenship with my country of birth and my grandparents’ birth country. My daughter and I visited the small village where they were born and raised in St. Patrice de Beaurivage. There is something about the smells of farmland; the resemblances of the villagers (900) to my aunts greeting one another in the only restaurant for Sunday supper; the fiddle music I heard as a child when my Uncles pulled out their handmade instruments that my grandfather carved, that feels closer to home and to my heart more now than ever.


When Marie Antoinette said: “Let ‘em eat cake” in response to hearing the people were starving and needed bread, they rose up, stormed the Bastille, starting a full-blown revolution. From here in Canada, I am asking myself why Americans have stopped short of storming the White House? I often wondered when I read about the French Resistance if I would have had the courage to join? Today I ask,

what is there to lose?

 
 
 

Thirty-four years ago at exactly 8:58 a.m., on July 8, the world shifted to make room for a very special soul. Until that moment, whether this newborn would be male or female was a secret the doctors and nurses kept to themselves. "Don't tell me", I reminded them each time we met over nine months. I wanted to be surprised. Names were pending until the time when either Sarah or Thomas aka "Sarah/Thom" would make an appearance. Either way, the baby would carry on the grandparent's names, and either way, he/she would be very warmly welcomed.


Sarah Eugenia (both grandmother's names) arrived as barely a six-pounder, with the longest fingers I had seen on any baby's tiny hand. "She'll be a pianist", I said. In fact, as I write today, her five-foot baby-grand piano sits in my living room. On her sixteenth Christmas, I wrapped a small piano ornament in paper and placed it in the bottom of the biggest box I could find. After she dug her way to the bottom, her blueberry eyes were intent on the black and whites before turning them on me: "Wait! . . . Are we getting a piano"? Within a week it arrived like a harp on wheels. When the time came for college, I began piano-sitting. It has been a gift I gave to myself! Just like Sarah has been these past three decades. She has touched more than my life. Sarah has touched my soul with her heart of gold.


Nobody I know is more "true blue" in her relationships. At her high school graduation party in the backyard, where all eighteen birthdays had been celebrated, I said:"If you are here today, you are blessed to be one of Sarah's friends. She will never let you down". True enough. This has been the hallmark of her life. This soon-to-be certified art therapist, has also taken her share of bitter disappointments. Yet, she has not given into the worst inclinations to give up. Instead, she has reached deep down like for something buried at the bottom of a treasure box for yet another gift. Herself. She is true to herself, as well. Seems she came with that built-in feature. It has served her well. So, I think, has our family motto.


One day, her Sunday School teacher asked: "What's your family motto"? The silence must have been deafening amongst the eight-year-olds. "Go home and ask your parents and come back next week to tell us". I remember vividly standing at the kitchen sink looking out over the garden when Sarah sprung the question. My mind might have been blank, but instead it scrambled through catchy phrases as if one was waiting to be plucked like an apple from a plethora of trees in an orchard. "Let me think about it", I said. Think about it, I did! It kind of got under my skin like some itch I couldn't quite reach. But, I knew I had to find an answer for her by Sunday. It mattered. There was a weightiness to claiming a motto as one's own. Something to live up to; to live by; to aspire to; to rely on in times of trouble. And, so it came to me out of the true blue above while driving to church the following Sunday.


"Our family motto is: Rise Above It", I proclaimed. There was power in those three words. It fit every occasion that would befall the three of us as we grew older together.

I had it inscribed in her high school ring. Rise Above It . . .Try it on for size and see how it fits!

Happy Birthday, Sarah! See you in Q.C.!
Happy Birthday, Sarah! See you in Q.C.!





 
 
 
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